We had a terrific time getting ‘away’ to Bunaken Reef for snorkeling on our anniversary weekend. It is on a different island so required a 3 hr drive, boat trip then airplane flight. So tho we took 4 days away, 2 of those were for travel each way. We enjoyed yet more cultural experiences… even the not so pleasant ones. Its all an education on world-view, so will be cherished as part of the whole. I don’t enjoy having to repeat stories, so was hoping to have everything so well described to you in these posts that by the time we get home, you’d have a complete picture, but too many situations will need to be shared one-on-one, face to face rather than via the www. Keep in mind that America with its freedom of speech is the exception, NOT the rule.
As a foreigner, almost without exception, we are assured one price or time allotment and it changes before our very eyes. We haggled over the price of the car for the 3 hr drive. You also have to have no opinion when that car driver stops to get a meal at a favorite ‘restaurant’ and pick up however many more people can squeeze into the rig. So, the length of time the drive may end up being is again according to Indonesian “rubber time”. We haggled over the price of the boat to get from our island to the next. Then, tho you settle on an agreed price for the 5 in your group, there will be one or 3 more people piling in on your dime. No way on earth to avoid all of it, so you get tired and just go with it. We got to the airport only to find a new tax added to the price of the 5 tickets we were already paying for. No way out… if you plan to fly, you will do whatever. Arriving at the other end, we haggled over the price of a vehicle to take us to the hotel where of course they had no record of our booking a room for 3 nights. This was absolutely untrue and the Indonesians accompanying us told us we were being blatantly lied to because we were foreigners and they would want more money to find a vacancy. They said they were full until a call was placed to the agent who booked the room for us and she required they honor the booking. Whatever. By that point we could almost smell a hot shower (none for all these weeks now) and tho we suppose we didn’t get the room we paid for as it surely did not match the description on the brochure the desk clerk showed us for the price…. we had a shower and were content. You cant be thinking you’ll relax for a bit in front of TV, tho it advertises “international TV” well unless you like the international fashion channel, Hannah Montana or cartoons in Indonesian… ). That night we went with 2 of our Indonesian friends to the home of their parents in a village 1.5 hrs away…that is the place we could not locate a way to be transported back to the hotel. Our hosts set out looking for transit for over an hr with no luck and were very specific that because we were ‘bules’ the drivers of the small taxi busses did not want to be responsible for our transport. We had to impose on our friends to make a 3 hr round trip to escort us then return immediately to the village. Other details will need to be in person.
The next day Joe was quite ill and had to stay in bed while our friends and I did a little shopping. Once he could be up and around, we tried the “American” eating places. KFC, Pizza Hut and A&W all have places here. It is the Indo version of course. Instead of mashed potatoes and gravy, you have rice. The only thing that really tastes the same was the root beer! OH yeah! But, it was fun enough to see their version of those places. Full day of cultural experiences then back to the hotel. Then for our second day away, we went to Bunaken Reef, which is a famous and gorgeous reef filled with coral and hundreds of exotic types of fish (picture Finding Nemo.) During breakfast, Joe had asked for 2 boiled eggs to take with us to the Reef, which the hotel gladly provided. I put them in my purse only to find out HOURS later, that we should have been a bit more specific about “hard boiled”. The goo was all over my purse and I had to wash everything out in the ocean. There were 6 of us together by that point and all prices are and were different for Indonesians than for us. We haggled over the price of a boat to take us to the reef. After MUCH discussion and assistance from our now FOUR Indonesian friends, Joe shook hands on an absolute and final “total” price. It soooooooooo wasn’t. (This was our 3rd trip to this Reef over the years, and we ARE familiar with how the process should go) But, if you want to get back from the reef, you will pay because they have all the time in the world to outwait you in a disagreement. And at the point the “polisi” were motioned to come “convince” me of how things were going to be, it was clear there would be no ’equal opportunity’ for us, so I paid. Also, much like many other countries in the world (Italy etc) you pay for toilet use. You wont be finding a toilet in that “stall”, nor will you find toilet paper.. But you will pay. Tyler, don’t be envisioning the squatters in Italy as these are not remotely even close.
It was a GORGEOUS sunny day and the water is crystal clear at the reef, you can enjoy the magnificent fish and sea growth without using a mask…its just a God-thing. The water is bath water warm and peaceful. We loved the get-away, but were actually ready to be back with the children and on Halmahera by the end of that day.
Sunday morning brought a repeat of the travel day 2 days prior. Getting to the airport to find the new taxes had now doubled from 2 days prior was discouraging, but unavoidable. After landing at the airport, repeat the process of haggling, but ADD that our driver for the 3+ hour drive back to ‘home’ assured me he had air conditioning (most do in the cars you pay for), agreed to a final price for the 5 of us, then once we were too far from the dock to do anything about it, refused to turn on the air without more money. We even refused to give in to this and repeated for him to take us back, but he would not and short of jumping out, we had no choice. Even the Indonesians riding with us addressed him adamantly feeling he was being unfair. No luck, we paid.
It was good to see the children and they were all cheering as we drove up. What a reception! It’s like a parade whenever we return from anyplace and the hugs and kisses start again. The children are usually standing out front watching for us and holler as we walk from as far away as they can see. On THIS occasion, we had to haul our luggage and bodies thru a window to get back into the children’s home because the door was locked and the key forever lost. It just fit the whole turn of weekend events… the perfectly appropriate finale.
Today Joe worked on the door and repaired a different broken door. He has taken up the challenge of “handyman” around here and honestly seems to enjoy it.
EVERYONE here plays guitar.. What else is there to do? The 2 keyboards they have here are broken and if we weren’t out of money LITERALLY hoping to have enough to get to Manado for our final flight out and pay everything else from there with a credit card, we wanted to buy them a new keyboard. Then dad would have taught several of them his easy system of playing. They are quick learners as they keep at it for hours easily. All seem to be naturally talented and have great voices and rhythm… all impressive. (Joe has said a few times that EVERYONE of them is a “Johnny Ramirez” and they really ARE that amazing) We’ve spent too much buying balls, toys and gifts for the children and workers, but its so EASY to spend the money that way!!
Joe and I were visiting with the workers in the clinic here on the compound and the funniest thing happened. If I’d had a video of it I am sure I’d win $10k. Joe saw a large dead beetle on its back on the floor and was sort of shoving it with his foot at me and the gals working there, just to be ornery and scare us. Pretty soon that “dead” creature grabbed his big toe and he could NOT shake it off. His fast reflex ‘kick and fling’ thing didn’t work at all. HAHAHAHA.. He had to peel that guy off his toe! It was great!
In my English class I sometimes want to chuckle because it is easy to forget that they learn by mimicking. They are quick learners, but it takes me back a little at times. For example, if I say a sentence and I use a particular fluctuation in tone, they will do exactly the same. We laugh a LOT and have great fun in the class. Joe and I teach them one English praise chorus a week and we sing it as a class, for the larger devotional gathering. They do so terrific. It’s fun to teach them because they WANT to learn English. Joe is forever the jokester and they find him a great bit of entertainment. One evening I had to miss a soccer game the group drove to. But I certainly heard them returning as the large truck full of 50 or so people were singing a soccer chant VERY loudly. BUT, instead of putting the usual word “Oley, oley oley oley” in, Joe had taught them a bit of English and they returned bellowing “Collette, Collette, Collette, Collette”…. now, it’s a given and WILL be sung when we all load into the truck no matter where we are headed.
You will be able to tell in a picture or 2 that Joe has lost weight. According to the scales here in the clinic it says he has lost 26 pounds. BUT, we are gauging that loosely…mostly because, even tho he DOES look like he’s lost at least that much, the scales are 3 little “Looney Tunes” scales with Disney characters on them and we usually have to take the average of the 3 since they never agree with each other. They are cheap and flimsy enough that when Joe first started to step on one of them, a nurse stopped him, concerned he’d break it. AND they are of course in kilograms. Anyway, it has to be good to some degree and with no snacks and candy around its helped enormously! I have lost 20 pounds, but would LOVE to drop another 15 AT LEAST, which wont happen since we wont be here long enough. But, we hope to keep off what we have lost so far. (I’m trying to get back to my original weight of 7 pounds 8 ounces!)
Joe has purchased 3 pair of sandals and is forever having to track down a pair to wear. I brought 3 pair and 2 of the 3 have walked away and stayed gone since the first week… Seems they know a good pair of “Teva’s” when they see them. SO, I have now purchased 6 pair of shoes since being here…and I go barefoot much of the time. Like I said before, it really isn’t that they are stealing; no one sees it that way at all. It’s just that what’s yours is theirs. See?
Everyone here has a cell phone. Everyone. They may not have shoes, but even young school children walking home from school are talking on their phones. It’s just such an oxymoron.
Joe will be preaching a Good Friday service on the compound this Friday and we will be singing several songs. I know it will be a special time. It is extraordinarily precious to worship with these kids. I say “kids” because we are by far the oldest people anyplace on this compound. Joe is even older than Hendrik, the man with leprosy in the pictures.
If you could see the countless homes we pass by who have a straw mat on the floor for a bed and no other furniture, but 6-10 enormous stereo speakers so they can play their music louder than a sufferable level, you just wouldn’t believe it. Joe said every speaker so far is bigger than the large speakers we use in our church! Then they stack them and create a wall of speakers and let it blast. Most of our 6:00 a.m. awakenings are a mixture of blasting loud music and the cries of the children here in the home. I don’t think the children are actually too very upset, they just feel obligated to scream LOUDER than the blasting music so they can get attention. I have taped it a morning or 2, but it doesn’t do the experience any justice on tape! Sometimes we groan, usually we just laugh because there is NO getting around it.
I’ve told you how the DVDs and CDs here are never the originals. I bought a children’s DVD to watch in the home last week and tho’ the sound is in English, the captions typed at the bottom are in Indonesian… DIRECTLY ON TOP OF THE CAPTIONS TYPED IN JAPANESE! So, neither are readable. I attached a picture of it for you. On one of the Tom and Jerry DVDs, the translation into Indonesian is flowing along when one of the translators says in English to his translation partner “I can never understand these 2, I have no idea what they are saying for this part”. The partner says “then just skip it” and all audio stops for about 10 minutes while the cartoon continues with the video.
Joe and I went with a a small mobile group of medical workers to see the TB patients in surrounding villages a couple of days ago. Basically a hard thing to shoulder when you want so badly to offer them help. Anyway, as we drove past one house Joe said “That was a deer, how odd”. Hmmmm… the driver backed up to show us that it was indeed a deer. We have seen the many free roaming goats, cows, pigs, chickens, ducks and dogs, but this was the first deer. Then one of the workers told us there are many jungle deer. I must have been as absent for that class in my grade school years as the classes I missed which taught about the walking sea shells. I had no idea.
One thing that is still odd for Joe and I to adjust to is to hear the Christians here pray to Allah. That is just not a familiar way for us to think in reference to a Christian God. But the students with all the love and genuineness in the world cry out to Allah. It is a good thing to help continue to broaden our American views.
As awesome as all of this has been, and I will always be grateful God provided the experience for us (and hopefully used us to touch a life or 2) I will look forward to returning to Alaska. I am quite sure I will always be very in love with my mountain heaven there. There are volcanoes here that appear like a mountain, but of course nothing like what waits back home. Thank you for being a family to love and care for us and to keep us in your prayers while we are gone. We have felt no fear and know we have been held in our Father’s hands.
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Palm Sunday in Tobelo
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Joe with a Large Shell
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Market Choices Butter
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Joe Holding 5!
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Joshua and PapaJoe
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Joe's Music Time with Children
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Mosquito Zapper
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Market In Tobelo
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My Shoes
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Nearby Lake
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Cant Believe the Volume
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Table when Joe's Away!
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Joe and Collette Food
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Typical House Inside
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Hungry Pig
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Joe after Ping Pong
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Fun with Stilts
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Hanging Baby Mobile Toy
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Beetle that Grabbed Joe!
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Crazy Pirated Technology
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Distractions during Class
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Big Bug in the Home!